Have you ever met someone that you feel an immediate connection with? Guy, girl - doesn't matter. You know that you want to spend time with this new awesome person because you share so many of the same interests and let's face it - they actually laugh at your jokes. Like 87% of them.
So it's odd and unsettling when that person doesn't seem to want to strike up an immediate kinship. I don't get this because who doesn't want a new best friend? Am I the only one who is excited to extend my group of soul mates? Am I a crazy person? You can tell me the truth....
(obviously I just went through this or I wouldn't be blogging it)
(ugh.)
7 comments:
This happened to me a couple months ago! I had never thought about it till then because I realized that whenever that happens, usually the other person notices and its mutual. You are not crazy. Its weird and honestly, kind of frustrating. ha.
You're a crazy person
they are stupid to not want to be your new soul mate.
Seriously!! This happened to me like a month ago. We're cool, right? Shouldn't people want to be friends with us? And we want to be friends with them, too! Those kindred spirits are just rare, I guess!
HATE it when that happens!!!
This never happens to me, lol. I'm honestly so hysterical sometimes. Anyways. They are on the crazy train, guuurl. Making friends is actually hard as an adult, there are no available after school afternoons, or inviting someone over to jump on the trampoline, -and it's like both of you better get on the same page or it can require to much effort. sheesh, what ever happen to the good ole days-- and if this is a boy, they are just dumb, sometimes you have to give them like 5 chances to realize why they need to be friends with you.-- sometimes making out helps them realize that faster :-)
This happens to me about every three months. Except really I come across way cool and then I get really awkward anytime after that...so maybe they can sense that from the beginning? And they're like "well we are the same person which means next time we see each other we will both be very uncomfortable"
So it's best to just let it be. If that even makes sense.
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